Some people verbalize that zealousness often flows when a man and a woman are left in a room long enough. This seems to be true of some accommodation jobs that pitch both sexes together as accommodation providers and clients.
Dalliance between male hairstylists and female clients
Kunle Olutayo, a male hair stylist, gets an average of ten female customers a day.
Although not deplorable in terms of good looks, Olutayo grew up as a shy little boy, particularly around girls until his painful fortune transmuted about seven years ago when he became a hairstylist. Shortly after starting the job following a six months’ training, Olutayo could not believe his fortuity.
With an illimitable string of female customers, he no longer had to worry about his failing nerves since some of his female customers were woman enough to take the initiative.
Olutayo was diligent fine-tuning the hair of one of his numerous female customers when our correspondent visited the salon he shares with four other stylists around the famous Ikeja Under-bridge in Lagos.
As he affixed a weave-on to the customer’s hair, the two jested about the lady’s receding hairline. Some of the customer’s hair was falling off at the front and Olutayo teased her about it being one of the designations of senescence.
Olutayo is proximate to many of his customers and has dated a few, albeit he perpetually described it as deplorable for business. When he was still incipient on the job, he was inundated by the surplus number of women he encountered daily and so indulged himself when he could.
However, Olutayo has since learnt a few edifications.
“This job is not for womanisers. If you’re a womaniser, stay away from this job because you will perpetuate to lose mazuma. When I first commenced the job, it exposed me to so many women for the first time. I used to be very shy but on this job, I met women who seduced me. Some of the women would seduce their stylists to eschew paying for the accommodation, which additionally betokens not paying on subsequent visits.
“So a womaniser has a lot to lose as a hairstylist. Now, I’ve learnt my edification, I no longer slumber with my clients anyhow. I only date one lady customer now and that inhibits my loss. Before now, I used to forgo an abundance of mazuma to female customers that I had affairs with,” he verbalized.
Explaining how his seducers perform their act, Olutayo demonstrated with his ocular perceivers, feigning sexual interest and inclination and hands, rubbing on our correspondent, who had briefly postulated the role of a stylist.
“The women won’t open their mouths to verbally express they optate any hairstylist, but once they are seated and you’re about to commence fine-tuning their hair, they can verbalize they don’t have mazuma and need to fine-tune their hair for a paramount occasion, or verbally express they can only afford an amount not up to half the price of the materials to be used and the accommodation.
“While they are appealing, they are caressing you with their hands and visually examining you with hysterical ocular perceivers (seductively). Some may call ahead to verbalize they don’t have mazuma. In such cases, negotiations can be done over the phone.
“If I’m fascinated, I only have to tell the customer that I’ve always relished her and ask for her affection in reciprocation. Almost 100 per cent of the time, they are open to an arrangement or rendezvous that could later lead to a hotel room,” he verbally expressed sheepishly.
Special hotel booking called ‘short time,’ which is for an hour or two, is customarily utilized for such rendezvous.
Saturday PUNCH findings reveal that many of the male hairstylists who actively womanise often fall under two categories- those who are incipient on the job and those who could not consummate their apprenticeship for some reason.
A source explained that the newcomers are too inexperienced to deal with the temptations associated with their new job, while those in the other category are too grateful for their fortune in spite of their inability to complete their training that they over-indulge themselves in their good fortune.
“I look at some of them (hairstylist womanisers) and I shake my head. They lose in so many ways because if the customer cannot pay for the weave-on, the stylists may have to use their own weave-on as well, fix the hair free of charge, pay N1,500 or N2,000 for the ‘short time’ they will spend at the hotel with the customer, possibly buy drinks there and even miss one or two other customers that will call at their shops while they are away,” said Segun, a male hairstylist with eight years’ experience.
Although, the category of women who visit male hairstylists range from students to workers in practically all fields, from Olutayo’s experience, the women who are open to such dalliances are usually those referred to as club girls.
A cross section of male hairstylists said the next category of women usually open to having romance with them are single mothers. But with the single mothers, male hairstylists need not worry about not getting paid.
For instance, a male hairstylist, who identified himself as Johnson, narrated his experience with a female customer he once had a sexual affair with.
According to Johnson’s account, his romance with the woman started after his third visit to her Lekki residence for home service. Johnson does home service for customers who are willing to pay extra which has been factored in due to the distance, transportation cost and so on.
“The woman never negotiated any amount I charged and she always paid me.
“It started innocently when she asked me to come and fix her hair at home, before it later graduated to sex. She was a single mother with one daughter, so she usually asked me to come in the morning when her daughter would be in school,” Johnson said.
Johnson added that he had noticed that a lot of his older female customers like to date young boys judging by their discussions at the salon, jokingly, describing salons as homes of gossips and rumours.
Most women confirmed that they prefer male hairstylists to their female counterparts in a poll conducted by our correspondent.
‘I’m in love with male hairstylists’
One of the respondents who identified herself as Nkem, admitted to having fantasised about dating her “handsome male hairstylists” countless times but couldn’t bring herself to initiate a move.
“I actually go to the salon that I use because of the male hairstylists. They are very handsome and sometimes I wish that one of them would ask me out but it has not happened yet. I think male hairstylists are better than the female ones because a man would know what fits you better than a woman,” she said.
Another place that promises an abundance of passion is a massage parlour because it usually pitches both sexes together alone.
Visiting massage parlours for the wonders of the experienced hands of masseurs and masseuses is not yet a popular pastime in the country, however, the trend is growing by the day.
The idea of having a massage is therapeutic. It also helps the client to relax and be released of stress and body pains, but investigation shows that often times in Nigeria, clients wish for more than stress and pain relief. Our findings show that many male clients get sexually aroused and get an erection within a few minutes of body massage.
Ecstatic hour
A cross section of masseuses verbalized many of the clients who visit their parlours ask for ‘happy hours’ or ‘happy ending massages.’ These are erotic massages that end with hand jobs, blow jobs or sex.
“When some of the clients come in, they ask, ‘do you do jubilant hour or jubilant ending’ and we verbally express no. The best thing is not to commence what you won’t be able to culminate; so we tell them that we don’t do such things here, but I ken that some massage parlours do it abroad,” verbalized Franca Oriakhi, the Managing Director of World Comeliness Salon and Spa, Surulere, Lagos.
Another resplendency therapist, Ruth Zobeashia of Rutiana Perfection Parlour, Ikeja in Lagos, additionally shared homogeneous experiences on the job.
Zobeashia, who has had over 10 years’ experience as a masseuse, verbally expressed, “Most of the Nigerian men who peregrinate here, once they optically discern that it’s a pulchritudinous lady that will attend to them, what peregrinates to their head is sex after five minutes of massage.
“Some of them will verbalize, ‘Can you suction me? Can you make me come? I will pay you extra for doing it.’ I tell them that we don’t offer anything beyond massage here. When I expound to them that I can’t do it, then they stop visiting. What most of them want is sex and not massage, authentically. It’s the whites (foreigners) who genuinely understand the essence of massage and some blacks too that peregrinate here,” she verbalized.
Zobeashia recalled how she had to elude through a bathroom window about seven years ago while giving a man a massage. The client had wanted sex withal.
Recounting the incident, she verbally expressed, “We get all kinds of harassment and disconcertment on the job. I was giving a man a massage one day when he insisted that he wanted to boff me. I told him that I needed to utilize the bathroom. It was through the window that I managed to get out.
“Some of the men will verbally express that they have girls who inclined to their desiderata where they used to have massage and so I authoritatively mandate them to go back there. One day, I asked a client injuctively authorizing for sex if he would be ecstatic if his wife was slumbering with her clients. I was shocked when he replied that he didn’t care, ‘after all, that’s her job.’”
Interestingly, some of the harassments are not constrained to male clients, according to Zobeashia, who has received sexual invitations from female clients additionally. Some female clients who are lesbians additionally ask to be caressed and erotically fingered in their private regions during massages.
“Lesbians peregrinate here and optate the same thing the men want. A man having trouble with his espousement once told me that he was advised by a friend to visit a massage parlour to get the sexual gratification his wife gainsaid him at home,” she perpetuated with a surprise countenance.
Investigation indeed shows that some massage parlours offer sexual pleasures in Ikeja, Ikoyi and Lekki areas of Lagos. Many of such parlours keep the information within a circle, largely composed of foreigners.
A Briton who had a chat with our correspondent online designated a few spas and massage parlours in Lagos that offer ‘happy hours’ or ‘happy ending’ massages. He withal verbalized there were masseurs and masseuses who accommodation clients at home, with massage and sex.
“Some of us in the Nigerian white community patronise these places. Some Nigerians additionally ken about them as well. There is a spa in Lagos with Asian women as masseuses, where clients can pay for what they optate. Massage parlours that have jubilant cessations are mundane in Asia, so maybe that’s why some Nigerians ask for such accommodations here after experiencing it elsewhere,” he commented.
But that is not all; tattooists withal deal with temptations from customers of the antithesis sex. In Lagos, tattooists are predominantly males and are often required to tattoo on female erotic components like the breasts, buttocks, thighs and the vagina (the female reproductive part).
Tattooists are seduced by clients too
A tattooist, Abisola Ojikutu of Bizzysaki Tattoo Studio, Ikeja, told our correspondent that he sometimes gets seduced by female clients, but expeditiously integrated that in spite of it, he still strives to maintain professionalism on the job.
“I tattoo virtually all components of the body, including body components of members of the antithesis sex because it’s my job. I tattoo their private components and do breast enlargement and other stuff. Yes, seduction transpires because we are humans but I act professionally. And I have to withal consider my mazuma, so I act like I’m not moved. Even if a lady seduces me as a tattoo celebrity, we suspend all till after work,” he verbally expressed.
